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Have you been feeling like GOD won’t forgive you? Do you feel like you messed up so badly that GOD just won’t forgive you? Well, GOD is a forgiving GOD. HE knows that we are dust and that we do things that are wrong, sometimes. I encourage you to trust GOD and HIS FORGIVENESS. All you have to do is ask HIM to forgive you, mean it, and then don’t do that thing again.
See, it is the job of the enemy to make you think that GOD is so mad at you that HE won’t or somehow can’t forgive you. You cheated on your spouse? If you are truly sorry about it, and asked GOD to forgive you, HE HAS. HE no longer is holding it against you.
Stole something that didn’t belong to you and think GOD won’t forgive you? If you have asked GOD to forgive you, and mean it, HE HAS and no longer holding it against you.

Maybe you weren’t a good parent to your child/children. Maybe you weren’t a good child. Were you on drugs? Selling your body for money or drugs? Did you murder someone? Hurt someone that caused them much physical and/or mental pain? If you are truly sorry and have asked GOD to forgive you, HE HAS and HE IS NO LONGER HOLDING IT AGAINST YOU.

Don’t allow the enemy continue to make you feel guilty about something you have done. GOD is not the one making you feel guilty. Once HE has forgiven you, it’s done.

So, cheer up! GOD loves you! Oh yes HE DOES. HE proved it by sending HIS Son to take our penalty of sin. Now THAT’S forgiveness and that’s love.

Now, since you know that GOD forgives and HAS ALREADY FORGIVEN YOU, stop beating up yourself; stop allowing the devil to beat you up; stop allowing others to beat you up and walk in the forgiveness of GOD. AMEN.



Women, KNOW Your Worth!!!

I was looking at an article today about a tv “star” who apparently does NOT know her worth. She seems to think her worth is found in doing porn and in enlarging her boobs……to get the desired attention she is seeking.

This saddens me as I keep trying to stress that we, women, are not our boobs, hips and bottoms. If that is all a man is interested in, then please send him to the nearest chicken joint to get his appetite satisfied.

This young woman was so pretty without all of the extra stuff she is doing to her body, but the demands of Hollywood has caused her to try to impress men so she can make her porn career better. It’s sad that a woman WANTS to be know for being a porn star. I feel like finding her, wrapping my arms around her and tell her that she worth more than being looked at as a piece of meat or as a whore. 
Young women, YOU ARE NOT just good for hard penis. You have a brain. Please use it. Please don’t let porn or any other ungodly practices be your motivation. Porn, while it may pay good money, it opens the door for sexually transmitted diseases. Porn, while it may pay good money, could prevent you from getting a job later in life because once something goes viral, there’s no getting rid of it. Porn, for what it’s worth, is a degrading profession meant to cheapen the value of a woman. I know that for those who like porn, this sounds preachy and judgmental, but as a woman, I know that a woman is worth more than what is between her legs and how good she can give a blow job. I know that a woman is worth more than being passed around from man to man to get his pleasure, but for a woman who doesn’t know her worth, being a porn star is glamorous. 
Young women, know your worth! 
As I sat yesterday, looking out a window, I saw many women pass me by. Some were mothers. Some were single women with no children at all. They lived in the project and I tell you what, the woman who respects herself and decides to separate herself from the crowd, she is hated and ridiculed. The woman who dresses without exposing her body parts is considered Not cool or frigid/rigid. The woman who is not looking for the attention of men, she is looked upon as stupid. while on the other hand, the young woman who is out there baring her boobs, and wearing booty shorts, she is praised and accepted. The guys don’t like it when she dresses conservatively. They want to see body parts, and most of the women in that complex oblige the lustful, just want to get laid, men. This is young and old alike. 
Women, know your worth. If you aren’t worth having their last name, you shouldn’t give them your goodies. especially knowing that they are laying with other women who don’t know their worth. 
I know that I look at things from a different perspective and not all women know who they are, but if you don’t remember anything from this post, remember this: WOMEN, KNOW YOUR WORTH!


Women, Know Your Worth ~ B****

I just had to express my feelings on this, once again. It disturbs me when I hear females referring to themselves as “bitches”. It’s one thing for someone else to say it, but when YOU demean yourself by proudly proclaiming that you are a “bitch“, then I see that as a problem.

These young women whom I see and hear proudly proclaiming their “bitchiness” as a good thing, are opening the door for others to call them that and treat them as such. Not only are they SPEAKING this out of their mouths, they are PROUDLY proclaiming it on social media and then wonder why they can’t get a decent job or a decent man. They actually wonder why no REPUTABLE employer will follow-up with them or why they can’t get a good man. REALLY? 

Women, how do you expect men, other women, employers and others to respect you when you don’t respect yourself? Being a self-proclaimed “b****” should NOT be a badge of honor for any “self-respecting” woman. Ooops. That sounds like an oxymoron. What is so good about being known as a “b****”? Does it mean that you’re tough? Does it mean that wearing that title makes you one to be feared? What DOES it mean, for real?
There are ways to let people know that you won’t take any mess without you demeaning yourself by calling yourself a “b****”.

So women, WAKE UP!!! KNOW YOUR WORTH!!! Change your words and change your life.

Men, Know Your Worth – Sagging

It’s been a while but I just wanted to take the time to give a brief note of encouragement to the men out there.
One day, as I was riding up the escalator, there was a young man in front of me who had on a pair of jeans which were half way up and half way down. His undergarments were exposed and he appeared to have wanted to have it that way. He had a young woman with him and she seemed to be unaware of the fact that this guy was walking around with his pants half up and half down.
So, what’s the problem? Guys, it’s not cute seeing a man’s undergarments as he is trying to walk. Some of you look like you need to run to a toilet and “dump” while others look like at any moment, your pants are going to fall off. Why?
If the story is true that this fashion choice happened as a result of prisoners using that as a means to let other prisoners know that they were available for anal sex, is that something you want to present outside of prison? Are you trying to let general population know that you are available for anal sex?

Well, I can hear some of you say that it’s just a fashion statement. Ok, If that’s what you are trying to get across! However, in Philadelphia, it just seems like the thing to do. I’ve even seen some men walking abound with their pants down to the middle of their thighs.and a belt tightly bound so the pants won’t drop any further.
I’ve even seen some  men walking around with their young sons with THEIR pants hanging off of their butts. 

Men, I will respect you more with your pants up. Looking at your pants hanging off of your butt is a turn-off. I couldn’t even tell anyone how a man looks if he is walking around with his pants hanging off of his butt. 

Your worth is NOT IN YOUR butt.

Unfortunately, you could be a man of great character but just because you wear your pants off of your butt, it automatically lumps you in with the guys who are gang bangers, thieves, murderers, and those who hang on street corners selling drugs.

I realize this is my opinion and I am not trying to offend anyone but Men, Know Your Worth and please, PULL UP YOUR DARN PANTS.